April 23, 2011

Learning to ♥

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The key to succeeding in relationship is not finding the right person; its learning to love the person you found.

Sustaining love is not passive or spontaneous experience "the labor of love" because it takes time, effort and energy. And most importantly it takes wisdom. You have to know what to do to make your relationship work. Sure true love can only happen after you've fallen out of love.

When you begin choosing to love even if you don't feel like doing it----that's true love.

...And that's the foundation of a lasting and strong relationship.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe(such as gravity) there are also laws for relationships.
Just in the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship will make your marriage stronger.
It is a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable--you can "make" love.

Love is indeed a decission.. not just a feeling. You'll not just go away with your relationship just because the feeling is gone. In the Bible, love is a commitment. You make it happen.

GOD determines who walks into your life, its up to you who you let walk away, who you let stay and who you refuse to let go..


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